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The Trouble with Keywords

This reflection was prompted by witnessing how shallow many people discussing the Enneagram are, but it applies to anything connected with spirituality and occultism, including divination.

Keywords can be a great learning tool, and often they tend to stand us in better stead than cheap, unguided intuition. There’s also the false assumption that keywords are useful only until our intuition kicks in, but that presupposes that what most people call intuition is serviceable at all beyond suggesting sugary commonplace statements (true intuition is another thing altogether, of much nobler origin, and a much rarer phenomenon).

But keywords, too, must be handled with care. I was at an Enneagram retreat and we were discussing Type One, which everyone kept referring to as the Perfectionist or the Critic. At which point everyone and their mother started realizing that they, too, were perfectionists and sometimes too critical, even if they didn’t think they were a One.

The trouble with keywords is that they are effective at condensing knowledge and understanding only as long as that understanding has taken place beforehand. Otherwise, keywords veil just as much as they reveal. Taken at face value, and not as quick stands-in, they lead us astray.

Type One is constantly in a tension between their irreflective urges and the perceived need to justify them in front of an (internal) higher authority, so they end up trying to align those immediate urges with ‘what’s right’. If this then expresses as criticism or perfectionism, it is purely an outward manifestation. A Type Six can be just as perfectionistic because abiding by a certain ideal gives them peace and security and soothes their fear of being left to their own devices. In fact, any type can be perfectionistic in a way that fits their internal dynamic.

The trouble with keywords is therefore that we  simply take them at face value from our own perspective, without seeing them as condensations of deeper knowledge. In the case of the Enneagram, a Six will hear “perfectionism” (Type One) or Helper (Type Two) and apply it to themselves.

Even a Type Five can see themselves as a Helper if they find themselves giving out knowledge to others whom they deem to be helping. But a Five is motivated by themes of (in)adequacy and (in)competence to function in the world, which they compensate for by acquiring knowledge. A Two (the Helper) is motivated by the need to be seen, loved and confirmed in their existence by another.

What I just applied to the Enneagram is valid for pretty much all fields of occultism, and for that matter all fields of life. But especially in occultism, whether it be divination, magic or devotion, we are trying by definition (occult is what is hidden) to look past the veil of appearances and to go to the essence of things. Essence is an unfashionable word in our postmodern world, where everything is performative and internally empty, Yet keywords are useful only in so far as they represent on the surface what lies beneath. Once the connection is lost, occultism becomes the confused research so many people rightfully consider it to be.

MQS

Forget Fame And Be Happy

One thing that never ceases to amuse me is how so many of the people who try to sell courses in ‘wisdom’ or other metaphysical services, who pretend to have had access to the ultimate secrets of the universe, all seem obsessed with increasing the weight their own name carries. There they are, engaged in cock fights with one another, vying for the attention and legitimation of a small number of clapping seals.

I’m not one to rain on other people’s parade, but if anyone reading this is on any sort of quest for ‘development’ (let’s use the shallow, non-descript term), you can safely forget fame. There is nothing wrong with wanting your merits recognized, but realize that you will be forgotten. Even the greatest of the greatest, the Shakespeare’s and the Einstein’s, will in the fullness of time be forgotten.

I understand the allure of an above-average level of recognition. I was raised by a mother who thought the only way for her to have a meaningful life was to birth and raise the next great genius of humanity. It took me years to distinguish my own aims from hers, to recognize that I am smart but not a genius, driven but not obsessed, and that my desire for recognition was actually hers. To this day I have to remind myself of that on a daily basis because the old education constantly rears its head within me.

I’m also not willing to reject humanity’s drive for recognition out of hand. I see that it has been the fuel behind some great accomplishments. But what I do find funny is that exactly the field that we might broadly speaking define as spirituality should be so full of egomaniacs of the shallowest, most recognizable sort.

As someone whose magical motto is ‘I shall neither lead nor follow’, I am not necessarily looking for a guru. But I know that there are people who look for a teacher, and in itself that is alright. But do be careful. Recognize them by their fruits. And some of their fruits include their actions. If they are screaming on socials at the top of their lungs, they might not be a great example to follow.

This is not to say they can’t have something to say or to teach. As a deeply flawed individual, I have learned a lot from deeply flawed individuals. But don’t put them on a pedestal. Don’t be a groupie. If you are on a path to wisdom, you cannot afford that.

MQS