Name: Old Lady
Italian Name: Vecchia Signora
Playing Card: 2♠
Polarity when Upright: Neutral
Core Meanings: decline, waning, weakening | an elderly woman | slow, structural changes, stagnant situations | Everything old | a visit or short trip | good advice
Polarity when Reversed: Negative
Reversed Core Meanings: An old crone, an intriguing old woman | Sharp decline | separation, removal, inability to get along | situations that are stale, obsolete, without perspective
Card Description: an elderly woman comfortably seated in a large chair, probably waiting to receive a relative.
Suit and Number: Twos are cards of strengthening, extension, development. The suit of spades, however, is generally negative. The Two of Spades is therefore a card of weakening, stagnation, decline and waning.
UPRIGHT 2♠
General: a neutral card with a slew of meanings, possibly one of the hardest to read in the deck. The core of the card, we’ve seen, has to do with decline, slowness, waning. It is everything that is reaching its natural conclusion, from life to contracts, from a school year to a relationship, and so on. From here it takes on symbolic meanings by analogy, including old age, everything old, experience, etc. It represents slowness and slow, structural changes, things that develop slowly and move slowly and little if at all, or things that stagnate, even. By analogy with the idea of little movement, it represents short trips and especially visits as opposed to long travel and journeys. It is also a face card, a significator for an old woman, usually 60+.
Love and Relationships: when the Two of Spades represents a person, she is an elderly woman. The meaning is neutral and depends on the context. Usually, she’s an elderly relative of friend, or a colleague who is close to retirement. Whatever the case, the person is experienced and, with positive cards, will either help or advise the querent well.
When the Old Lady is not a person, it can take on a whole host of different meanings. When it signifies the type of relationship between two people, it usually one grounded in trust, affection and affinity, albeit possibly lacking in excitement. It can also show that the relationship is stable and has deep roots, and whatever change will happen to it is going to be gradual and structural rather than random and on a whim. With less positive cards, it shows a bond that is weakening and waning or a stagnant relationship.
In relationship readings specifically, the 2♠ can signify an ex. However, unless a heart card comes nearby (e.g., Q♥), it means that the querent has no feelings left.
Work and Money: with positive cards, the Two of Spades can signify slow, structural changes for the better that bring stability. It is connected to accumulated savings and with speculations that mature slowly. With specific cards, it can point to a traditionally wealthy family that has the querent’s back, and to old objects of considerable value. With negative cards, it points to financial decline, projects that stagnate or a collaboration that no longer yields fruits and is going to be interrupted. It can represent traditional business models or inherited businesses and working with the elderly or with old things, concepts, objects. It can also be an old job, a job you’ve already done in the past. With positive cards it can also represent old projects that finally being to give results. Needless to say, the Old Lady is connected to retirement.
Other: there are four important concepts to remember that can be applied to most questions: a situation that is waning and reaching its natural conclusion; slow structural change; short trips and visits; everything old, traditional, connected to the past.
Psychologically, it represents maturity and the ability to learn from experience. It also represents serenity and acceptance of what’s to come, as the person knows the difference between what can be changed and what must be faced with stoicism. It is also connected with conservatism and traditional values, without a negative connotation (unless with negative cards). It can mean being attached to one’s roots. Spiritually, it shows, again, slow changes and traditional forms of spirituality. It can also signify a deep connection with the divine that renounces the flashy stuff but knows what’s truly important, and the ability to learn lessons from every curve ball that life throws at us. Artistically, it has a connection with old objects and classical art as opposted to avant-garde schools.
Note that when surrounded by negative cards, being a rather weak card, the Two of Spades takes on some of its reversed meanings.
Important Combinations:
2♠ + 5♠ = the natural end of something
2♠ + 8♦ or J♦ or 3♣ = visit
4♥ + 2♠ = feelings slowly declining | an ex
7♣R + 2♠ = decline in status
Q♠ + 2♠ = the mother-in-law (in a neutral sense)
REVERSED 2♠R
General: A very negative card on the whole. When it represents a person, best case scenario she’s dead. If she isn’t, then she’s trouble. Its upright meaning of decline and weakening is retained, but here it becomes much sharper and more likely to be harder to accept. While the upright 2♠ represents visits, the 2♠R represents separations and the inability to get along and putting differences aside.
Love and Relationships: when she’s a woman, hopefully she’s kicking the bucket, thus justifying the reversed position. When she’s alive and well, however, she represents a spiteful old crone with all the stereotypical traits of spiteful old crones, from pettiness to hypocrisy to meanness to pearl-clutching prejudice. She is also a skilled liar who will make life difficult for the querent.
When the card doesn’t represent a woman, she can describe a relationship of any type that has run its course and has no future. Alternatively, it can signify a relationship that has no nurturing or reassuring quality for the querent. It is a sign of coldness and frigidity.
This card predicts falling outs and arguments and is generally a harbinger of separation and of a fundamental inability to get along and compromise. It can also show, depending on the other cards, that something that has been said and done in the past still weighs on the relationship.
The card can still represent a person from the past, but in this case the reversed Two of Spades acts as a definite warning.
When people are trying to improve their relationships by changing their behavior, the Old Lady reversed implies that the change will be short-lived and soon the relationship will revert back to the same old problems.
Just as this card can show situations that pull people apart, it can show situations that pull people together for the wrong reasons, and so it can, albeit rarely, identify negative groups, bad company and the wrong crowd.
Work and Money: again, very negative, but much depends on the other cards. The 2♠R taints our relationship with colleagues and can herald a loss of employment. It also represents a work environment that is stale and offers no growth opportunity. In general, it shows lack of enterprise and initiative, and when it comes to business models, it shows them inadequate and behind the times. More in general, if the cards show a past mistake, the reversed Two of Spades signifies the inability to get over that mistake and improve things. This is the card of ventures that have ceased to be profitable. Depending on the context, it can show a business that has no future or someone who has no feasible plans for their financial or career future.
Financially, this card also signifies avarice and a miserly attitude. Metaphorically, this meaning can apply also when the querent is asking for money, e.g., requesting a loan, in which case it will be denied.
Other: psychologically, the card is connected either to reactionary views and fundamentalism or to immaturity and weakness of character. Either way, it signifies someone who has no clear perspective (and whose advice must be avoided). In general, it shows someone or something that has no future or someone who has no feasible plans. Usually, it highlights a person who is incapable of changing. It represents anything that is ossified.
Upright, the Old Lady was a card of traditional values and roots. Reversed, it can represent someone who has no roots, like a waif or orphan, or who gives up their roots, such as abandoning the family, giving up one’s citizenship, etc. (in these cases, the card is neutral and must be read in context).
Spiritually, the card represents fundamentalism and a greater attention to form and rituals than to substance. It also shows spiritual views that are cruel and unforgiving. It also points to someone who hasn’t been able to learn anything from life. In esoteric reading, it often signifies an evil hexer.
Important Combinations:
2♠R + A♥U/R or 8♣R = inability to get along
6♦ + 2♠R = extreme conservatism, obsolete views or plans | lack of enterprise or initiative
2♠R + 4♦ = intrigues, schemes, hypocrisy
2♠R + 6♥R = hoarding, not wanting to give or share
2♠R + 5♠ = sharp decline and end of a situation
Other Combinations: Vera Sibilla | Examples of Combinations – The Twos
