Name: Sighs
Italian Name: Sospiri
Playing Card: 6♠
Polarity when Upright: Negative
Core Meanings: Time stretching out | Waiting | Torment, Anxiety
Polarity when Reversed: Neutral
Reversed Core Meanings: Instability | The end of desire and sighs, Letting go | Resolve | the need to listen to reason

Card Description: a young woman sighing as a ship departs, possibly with her lover.

Suit and Number: Sixes have to do with time, and the suit of Spades interpret the idea as delays and spasmodic expectations.

UPRIGHT 6♠

General: Negative but not tragic. Also relatively simple. It is mainly a card of delay, of waiting before something finally happens. Usually, if a combination comes before the Six of Spades (that is, if the Woman is looking at it) then the thing depicted by the cards is the source of the querent’s worry (but it doesn’t necessarily mean it will happen). If the combination comes after the card, then the thing will happen, but after much delay. Also, if a Face card falls after the Sighs, the sighs belong to the person.

Love and Relationships: an uncertain card that tells of great apprehension and worries concerning a relationship of any kind. It can mean that the person has great, possibly unrealistic expectations. It can also mean that the person is waiting desperately for something to happen, e.g. that someone will come to them. If confirmed by other cards, it could show feelings that are not mutual, and therefore cause the person sorrow. In a couple it may show that one of the two is almost maniacal about what they expect, and therefore fail to see what they have. It can also show worry over a long distance relationship, with other cards.

Work and Money: the Six of Spades comes up when plans and speculations are taking much too long to mature. It also shows that the person does not have the mental lucidity to make decisions because they are too attached to something (for instance, a businessman failing to see that it’s time to move on from a venture). More broadly it signifies lack of initiative and pessimism in the area.

Other: like the Eight of Hearts, the card is connected to Water, but in a more negative sense. It is also connected with large means of transport. Psychologically it points to anxiety, excessive worry and attachments, the inability to see a bright future.

Important Combinations:
6♠ + 5♠ = what you are waiting for won’t happen
6♠ + 7♠ = what you are waiting for will cause trouble
6♣ + 6♠ = the desire to get everything now
8♥ + 6♠ = mood fluctuations, hope and despair
2♦ + 6♠ = anxiously waiting for a communication

REVERSED 6♠R

General: A mixed bag. It is a card of uncertainty and fluctuation. More specifically though, it is a card clarity, of understanding and of moving on from something or someone. It is best understood as “no sighs”. If the card falls between cards of opposite meanings, it signifies ups and downs between those extremes.

Love and Relationships: often this card shows the realization that a love is over, or that a person is not interested. There is a sense of acceptance of what is. With positive cards it can show that the couple is finally capable of addressing an issue that’s been weighing on the people involved. The reversed Six of Spades can also show that the partner will finally be honest with the querent (or vice versa). Explanation will be given to unburden the conscience. It signifies announcements and making things public.

Work and Money: often it shows moving on from a plan or project after toiling and sighing and worrying without much to show for it. Because of its connection with the idea of making things public, the card signifies writing, publishing and communication.  It can also imply that the person realizes a certain line of work is not for them.

Other: we said that the reversed Sighs signifies lack of sighs, not worrying anymore. With negative cards that point to evil deeds, it can show that these are committed without sighing too much, i.e. remorselessly. Both psychologically and spiritually it can point to profound inner strength in working through like, the ability to renounce and move on. It can shoe the ability to be honest with yourself. It is good for kicking addictions. The card invites to listen to reason, therefore when near cards that show professional help it signifies that the querent cannot count on his strength alone and needs someone to help him.

Important Combinations:
7♠ + 5♦ + 6♠R + positive cards = moving on from a breakup
5♠ + 3♠ + 5♦ + 6♠R = moving on from a period of bereavement
9♦ or 9♣R + 9♠ + 6♠R = realizing you have a problem
6♠R + A♥ or A♦ = unburdening yourself
6♥ + 6♠R + 8♦R = economic ups and downs

Other Combinations: Vera Sibilla | Examples of Combinations – The Sixes